How to choose your first female vibrator


Before buying a vibrator, it is important to check certain parameters that can guarantee the quality of the equipment. Both vibrators for women and those for men have their specific characteristics.

To choose a vibrator for women, you must take into account aspects such as design, size and texture.

Criteria for choosing a vibrator 

When buying your first vibrator, there are certain criteria you should consider. These are :

  • SIZE;
  • form and feel;
  • materials and texture;
  • vibration intensity;
  • design.

You also need to consider the gadgets and the price of the vibrator. 

The size

Vibrators come in different sizes. You can very easily make a wrong choice, when you first buy.

Consider what you enjoy most when masturbating and making love. If you're pleasuring yourself with a finger, a large or penis-like vibrator may pack a bit too much punch or stimulate too many areas at once. You can also get the biggest if your sexual partner is well endowed. 

Form and feel

Once you have determined the size, you also need to consider the sensation. You need to focus on how you want a vibrator to feel. Only then will you be able to find the best shape of vibrator. People tend to look for five types of sensations. These are the sensation 

  • internal ;
  • clitoral ;
  • combined internal-clitoral ;
  • anal and ;
  • double penetration (vaginal + anal). 

The brains behind vibrators know that pleasure comes from many places, so they've created tons of uniquely shaped toys that can adapt to your needs.

If you're not sure what works best for you, take a minute to think about how you treat yourself. 

Do you enjoy intense, localized sensations? Do you get pleasure in the same way every time, or do you need something that can work in different ways?

You should consider what stimulates you the most when looking for your sextoy. If you don't really know where to turn, choosing an internal toy is advisable. 

Materials and texture

It's essential to check what a sex toy is made of before you buy. Silicone sextoy is a favorite, and many well-known brands use only medical-grade silicone. It's easy to clean with soap and water, making it healthy and safe for the body.

Other interesting options are also available. These include metal, stainless steel and hard plastic sextoys. Choose the one that suits you best. 

Avoid rubber sextoys. There aren't many left, as they have been found to contain harmful phthalates, which are banned in children's products.

In addition to the composition of your vibrator, there's the sensation it provides. For best stimulation, we recommend you choose a ridged or bumpy gadget. If you prefer, you can buy a metal vibrator. 

Metal will give you a fresh feeling. If, on the other hand, metal isn't your thing, simply apply a cooling or heating water-based lubricant (using a silicone-based lubricant on a silicone vibrator will dull it).

Some examples of first sextoy

The design 

Don't just consider the power of the sextoy when adding it to your cart. Don't buy something that is :

  • scary;
  • screaming or ;
  • aesthetically unattractive.

The design of a sex toy is also a criterion to consider. After all, it's an object you'll be using to arouse yourself. So forget that bright pink vibrator, unless you absolutely love the way it shines on your nightstand. Instead, choose one that tickles the sexy part of your imagination.

Desire and preferences are two purely personal sensations. Therefore, choose the sex toys that appeal to you. For example, if you prefer small and elegant ones instead of big and bulky ones, a bullet vibrator might be the way to go.

Vibration intensity 

Did you know that most sex toys have settings? They allow you to increase or decrease the intensity as you wish. 

If you have thin walls and the echo resonates, opt for a silent vibrator. Sometimes, the noise level will be correlated with the vibrator's intensity or power, but with top-of-the-range products, this won't be as much of a problem.

Most of us prefer a quiet vibrator, and spending a little extra money will ensure that your new sex toy is made with quality materials that help to dampen the noise. If you're looking for a silent but high-intensity sextoy, go for silicone. 

If you're worried that a silent vibrator will compromise the intensity of the sensations, we recommend testing the vibrator on your hand. You can also test it on the tip of your nose (as the skin is quite sensitive there) if you buy it in a store.

Gadgets and accessories

The range of functionalities is endless. We're talking about waterproof toys capable of producing vibrating and sucking sensations, remote-controlled toys and others that synchronize with your favorite playlist and vibrate in rhythm.

It's best to choose a vibrator with multiple functions. That way, you can more easily customize it to suit your mood and the situation. Some days, you might only want to use it for foreplay, and other days, you might want it to take you where you want to go. The wider the range, the easier it is to adapt it to your sex life.

Deciding what special effects you want is totally personal and depends on your budget. However, you can always start with something very simple and improve it later.

The price

You can find simple and cheap vibrators for about 15 euros. You can also find gadgets for more than 80 euros. The best thing to do is to find out the prices and budget accordingly. Don't skimp on money and treat yourself to the best sextoy. 

The benefits of using a vibrator 

The use of a vibrator provides several benefits. It allows :

  • to reach orgasm with ease;
  • to get to know your body;
  • the reduction of tensions.

With the use of a vibrator, you feel sexually fulfilled.

So many parameters including size, shape and feel, manufacturing materials and textures, design as well as the intensity of vibration of the vibrator are to be taken into account rigorously to make a first purchase that meets your expectations.

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